For Good Guys...part 1

I accidentally stumbled on a stranger's blog talking about ways to seduce girls, which reminds me of a book I read before......

In his blog, he had mentioned a phenomena when girls seemed to be in favor of "bad guys" instead of "good guys", and within my years in secondary school, I can often see that girls often favors guys that will be labelled as a badass by our parents and by the guai guai zhai like us...

I couldn't understand this during my secondary school years, and while watching animes and TVB hong kong drama, I couldn't understand, just why those dramas are so different from the reality? until......

On one bored day, I walked aimlessly in Parkson until fate guided me to Popular, when I met the book that changed my mindset, the book which I labelled as " the bible of true human behavior ". And after reading the book, I was slightly enligtened of the phenomena "why gals favor bad guys more"......

And so I shall share my point of view to you, and though girls might not be agreeing at all, I can see that there are some extent of truth in statment I'm making...

* Please note that what I wrote doesn't represent what I had done, because the fact that I'm still single, and also the fact that I am still a guai guai zhai that had no confidence in tackling girls. This is written just to share what I learn. SO definitely I am no casanova materials...

And actually I', just copy and pasting info from the book, so, burn the book instead of me.... = = *

And again, it doesn't apply to all situation, but most, i can say.... *

THE DEADLY MISTAKES of GUAI GUAI ZHAI (a.k.a good guys)

* I shall label guai guai zhai as GG *

1. Give in yourself too easily...

Act

Most guys, when met their favorite girls, will either remain silent, or started being nice to her. The GG will..... helping her in any way possible, from simple things like carrying stuff, to things such as repairing the pipe in her house, cared for her in every single details, from the tiniest details to the greatest stuff......

By hoping that he helped the girl much, she will start to appreciate the guy and grateful and fall in love with him...

While I admit this method might work on girls that had never fall in love before, this method will never work to most girls, esp. girls that had some amount of popularity, or girls that having lots of secret admirer.

Reason

Imagine this situation...

Mr. A get his first Ipod after working for few months, ranging from washing toilet, spreading flyers and doings works that others might not imagine, and finally after 3 months, he used his hard earned wages to get his first Ipod

Mr.B received his first Ipod in a birthday present.

Assuming that Mr.A and Mr.B had the same personality, and the Ipod is the same model, which perosn will treasure his Ipod more?

Obviously Mr. A will treasure his Ipod more. And from this situation, we can bring out one simple fact ... people treasured things that are not easily gained, and also the fact that people always take things for granted.

So advice for the GGs, if you offer yourself too easily, your efforts might strike surprise to the girl for the first time, but as times goes by, she 'll get used to all those nice things you do to her (take things for granted), you might gained acceptance from girl, but as a FRIEND, not boyfriend.

Especially for popular girls, you might not know that other guys might be doing the same things like you (helping the girl in any way possible). Then, among those other guys and you, are you stand out special among those other girls? Definitely a No!

Bad guys might knowing, or unknowingly know this fact, and therefore, their way of tackling girl is different...

Solution

I offer no solution to this matter, but from those things I wrote, I bet you can figure out a solution within some time...

Part 2 coming soon, and NOTE, those things I write apply to GIRL as well....