Saturday, June 20, 2009

My own graduation speech – posted by Jekyll

Good Morning

Look carefully to the persons around you. They might be your best friends, or a friend that share the same interest with you, your soul mates, a mere acquaintance, or perhaps, they are just those usual yet unfamiliar figures you’ll see on your class. No matter how and why are we related, we are here today, to witness one of the many ends of our lives, and perhaps, preparing ourselves to another stage of life – university life. And maybe three years later, you might see another set of difference faces this time. But no matter how many years had passed, how many people had passed and left our life; please remember that few years ago, we were once in this hall, sitting with those friends we treasured most.

There are times that we can’t wake up unless somewhere beside you give a big whack. There are times that we could be cheerful just because of a warm smile, or getting down just because of a cold shoulder. There are times that we get mad yet amused from the jokes of our friends. There are times that we worked together, we cried together, we played together, we complaint together, we emo-ed together, and enjoyed together.

Perhaps, it was those times that forged out bond as friends, and times passed mercilessly as we are united under the bondage that we named “friendship”. And even as we lauded “friendship forever”, we’ll always forget those moments are ephemeral, it passed away without notice. And therefore, I urged for reconciliations, for those among us that are consumed with hatred with each other. I urged for appreciation, for those of us that had found our best mates or the other one. I urged for actions, for those of us who are still looking at our dream half with regrets. I urged for recuperation, for those of us who had been unsuccessful in their endeavor, and finally, I urged for unity, for all of us who will be setting our path in a different world soon enough.

I was a well known nerd during my secondary school years, and when I thought back with my life with slightest regret, fate brought me to a place which I had least expected, to the dullest land of Shah Alam, in a place we called INTEC. And surprisingly, in this most boring place on earth, I am having the greatest fun ever unimagined. Those gossiping days, those karaoke and shopping days, those trips, those activities we joined, and even though I’m not a full participant of those events, those days are definitely fun as we looked back from our past. My life was once again illuminated, and though despairs seemed to be overwhelming, I know there are times I would eventually smile with a triumph in the end. My life in INTEC was like enjoying a cup of coffee, full of bitterness and with the slightest sweetness. Yet, it was the slightest that had made the coffee a good drink, and perhaps because of the slight sweetness that I learned to treasure it.

I am seeking forgiveness for those people that I had unknowingly hurt, due to my uncontrolled speech and my immaturity. And I know some of you might still holding grudges to me, even as I speak. However, I believe that those grudges will fade away as times passed by, and it will remain as the salt and sugar we had passed during those years. And thanks for those compliments, teases, scolding and advice, for they formed the part of me as I know today, and I valued it as how I valued my life.

Things will be eventually reaching an end.

And before the end, I just wanted to say, I really love those two years I am here, in INTEC. I might be looking cool, but I am well aware of the impact of your departure, and finally thanks for changing me, for better or worse, I treasured it most. And while I might leave just a mere stain in your memory, your presence will always be a carving in my memory lane.

Skies are no bound to our dreams,

Fiery flames are no match for our resolute,

Rules are no limit for our creativity,

The deepest sea, the precarious gorge,

Shall never be the boundary in our life

Dreams are meant to be fulfilled, and so

My friends, spread your wings and fly

To grab even the tiniest goals and the

The biggest dream

In this game we called LIFE

Thank You, and had a nice life afterwards. My blessings and prayers will always accompany you wherever you are.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Sigh... I guess...

Well, things had changed quite a lot since my last blog post. Though there's nothing much happened on the surface, a wild turbulent storm actually raged in my mind.

Suddenly, the class ended up without notice. Suddenly, those familiar faces that filled your eye everyday seemed to vanish in front of you. Suddenly, there's a dinner coming, which might meant the last gathering for us.

There are so many suddenly happened on me, that I actually failed to response...that the fact I didn't able to see some face is gonna make me down quite some time.

Hmm, sorry that I didn't come out for part 2, because of some sudden realization, I felt that those kind of information will only cloud your mind about what love is, as it did on mine.

To those GGs, if you can't stop being well to someone despite what I wrote, and you can't stop loving the certain someone despite how the girl reacted to you, I only had a few things to say...

You might be ended up single, but it was precisely those presence of those GG that we know that there were still people who sacrificed for love , that the ideal love in drama might be come true, and your effort, regardless fruitless or not, will receive our blessing as it was because those GG that we know that true love can still exist in this self-centered society.

Perhaps it was just me, but love is more than just a strategy game of sex seduction. It was not mere ststus change or achievement. It involves love, commitment, responsibilities, and understanding. In the end, feelings played a major importance in a relationship that those love tricks you might stumbled in bookstore.

Follow your feelings. You might not be successful but you gonna learn sth abt urself in the process...Faith is always the best plan.

So, for those GG that had suffered from singlehood, I hope you might give a reconsideration on what had you done and reassessed it, and had the preparation to taste the bitter end...should you wanna continue. If you juz wanna a girl, I believe those love trick books will give u a good advice...


* = = sth written out of boredom, might not represent what the author really think *

Sunday, June 7, 2009

For Good Guys...part 1

I accidentally stumbled on a stranger's blog talking about ways to seduce girls, which reminds me of a book I read before......

In his blog, he had mentioned a phenomena when girls seemed to be in favor of "bad guys" instead of "good guys", and within my years in secondary school, I can often see that girls often favors guys that will be labelled as a badass by our parents and by the guai guai zhai like us...

I couldn't understand this during my secondary school years, and while watching animes and TVB hong kong drama, I couldn't understand, just why those dramas are so different from the reality? until......

On one bored day, I walked aimlessly in Parkson until fate guided me to Popular, when I met the book that changed my mindset, the book which I labelled as " the bible of true human behavior ". And after reading the book, I was slightly enligtened of the phenomena "why gals favor bad guys more"......

And so I shall share my point of view to you, and though girls might not be agreeing at all, I can see that there are some extent of truth in statment I'm making...

* Please note that what I wrote doesn't represent what I had done, because the fact that I'm still single, and also the fact that I am still a guai guai zhai that had no confidence in tackling girls. This is written just to share what I learn. SO definitely I am no casanova materials...

And actually I', just copy and pasting info from the book, so, burn the book instead of me.... = = *

And again, it doesn't apply to all situation, but most, i can say.... *

THE DEADLY MISTAKES of GUAI GUAI ZHAI (a.k.a good guys)

* I shall label guai guai zhai as GG *

1. Give in yourself too easily...

Act
Most guys, when met their favorite girls, will either remain silent, or started being nice to her. The GG will..... helping her in any way possible, from simple things like carrying stuff, to things such as repairing the pipe in her house, cared for her in every single details, from the tiniest details to the greatest stuff......

By hoping that he helped the girl much, she will start to appreciate the guy and grateful and fall in love with him...

While I admit this method might work on girls that had never fall in love before, this method will never work to most girls, esp. girls that had some amount of popularity, or girls that having lots of secret admirer.

Reason
Imagine this situation...

Mr. A get his first Ipod after working for few months, ranging from washing toilet, spreading flyers and doings works that others might not imagine, and finally after 3 months, he used his hard earned wages to get his first Ipod

Mr.B received his first Ipod in a birthday present.

Assuming that Mr.A and Mr.B had the same personality, and the Ipod is the same model, which perosn will treasure his Ipod more?

Obviously Mr. A will treasure his Ipod more. And from this situation, we can bring out one simple fact ... people treasured things that are not easily gained, and also the fact that people always take things for granted.

So advice for the GGs, if you offer yourself too easily, your efforts might strike surprise to the girl for the first time, but as times goes by, she 'll get used to all those nice things you do to her (take things for granted), you might gained acceptance from girl, but as a FRIEND, not boyfriend.

Especially for popular girls, you might not know that other guys might be doing the same things like you (helping the girl in any way possible). Then, among those other guys and you, are you stand out special among those other girls? Definitely a No!

Bad guys might knowing, or unknowingly know this fact, and therefore, their way of tackling girl is different...

Solution

I offer no solution to this matter, but from those things I wrote, I bet you can figure out a solution within some time...


Part 2 coming soon, and NOTE, those things I write apply to GIRL as well....

Thursday, June 4, 2009

I'm Alive

It seemed to be a long time since i last updated a blog. Though there are much to say, I'm just too lazy to convert those things to words...and despite summer's going to end, I felt so lazy that I rather stuck in my own comfy bed playing games, instead of gathering gossips......

Kinda of lazy now @.@ .......

And during those days of bed cramming, I found an anime, which turned out to be quite nice....Kuroshitsuji!


Well, I save the story sypnosis for later, but looking at the wallpaper, this fella looks ...kind of cool. And while cramming the anime, I noticed a nice song...which I think I lack the most......

It was sung in English, (though i'm not sure whether she's a japanese singer or english singer) and though her voice is not the taylor swift type, I find her voice quite unique... here's the lyric

Becca I'm Alive

Nothing I say comes out right
I can't love without a fight
No-one ever knows my name
When I pray for sun, it rains
I'm so sick of wasting time
But nothings moving in my mind
Inspiration can't be found
I get up and fall but...

[CHORuS]
I'm ALIVE!
I'm ALIVE! Oh, yeah
Between the good and bad's where you'll find me
Reaching for heaven
I will fight
And I sleep when I die
I live, My life, I'm ALIVE!

Every lover breaks my heart
And I know it from the start
Still I end up in a mess
Every time I second Guess
All my friend's just run away
When I'm having a bad day
I would rather stay in bed
But I know there's reasons

[CHORuS]Repeat

When I'm bored to death at home
When he won't pick up the phone
When I'm stuck in second place
Those regrets I can't erace
Only I can change the end
Of the movie in my head
There's no time for misery
I won't feel sorry for me

[CHORuS]
[CHORuS]


I guess I really nid it...